Forgiveness is hard. Experiencing hurt because of another’s actions leads to feelings of deep anger, sadness, betrayal, and sometimes a strong desire for vengeance. This process is even tougher when the perpetrator is someone we care about. As difficult as it is, forgiveness is also be a powerful … [Read more...]
Five Steps to Effective Goal Setting
We are only a few days into the New Year and we are already being inundated with articles about failing resolutions. It doesn’t seem to take long does it? January is often a time for reflection about what has been and planning for what will be. Many of us resolve to use the New Year for greater … [Read more...]
In Marriage, Play Both Offense and Defense
(UPDATED November 2, 2017) You walk in the front door after running some errands in the afternoon. Your wife asks if you remembered to pick up some bread at the store. “I was supposed to go to the store?” you ask. Your wife gives you a frustrated look, sighs, and says “you don’t ever listen to me … [Read more...]